Coping (or not!) in Coronatime


21 Mar
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This lovely poem was written by Patrick Hall, posted on Kansas Center for Career and Technical Education FB page:

I imagine if Dr. Seuss were alive today, he’d write something like this:
(Read with Dr. Seuss book rhythm).

“The Unlikely Teacher”

The buildings were big and people would smile
And travel they would mile by mile.

But sick they became, in numbers it grew
Businesses worried, communities too.

Things stopped for a bit, the world slowed its roll
The virus had certainly taken its toll.

But what they then saw from slowing things down.
Is in fact they now had less reasons to frown.

Families now gathered, what game shall we play?
Pass me the blue crayon, give mommy the grey.

Dad’s home guys! He’ll read us a book
Then all of us together will cook.

The lungs of the planet caught a small break
Less travel meant less pollution to make.

People did realize they’d all be ok
They don’t need so much to get through the day.

Maybe this virus that caused so much stress
Showed the whole world that more can mean less.


How to be Homebound and Worried, and Not Fall Apart


https://www.nj.com/opinion/2020/03/im-a-nun-and-ive-been-social-distancing-for-29-years-here-are-tips-for-staying-home-amid-coronavirus-fears.html 

This is a good summary of anxiety in "central nervous system" terms from an article by Stephanie Rose on NEWS12-NJ:

To understand the basic physiological response in the body, I want you to think of yourself as a walking, talking nervous system. The central nervous system controls the automatic functions of the body that you don't think about on a day-to-day basis; like digestion, circulation, and breathing. It is generally active in one of two states - the fight or flight (sympathetic nervous system response) or the rest and digest (parasympathetic nervous system response). Can you guess what state the coronavirus pandemic has put us in? The fight or flight, nearly all day, every day. When we are constantly active in the fight or flight state, we can feel stressed, tense and overwhelmed. The palms sweat, the heart rate increases, and digestion shuts down as the body prepares to fight for survival. We evolved this way to preserve human life in the face of predators during early human history. But now we perceive an invisible predator that is putting us in this stressed-out state constantly, the virus. 

The article goes on to recommend "intentional" breathing, deep breathing, or focusing on the inhale. However, I find that this type of breathing is too difficult when our anxiety is extremely high, therefore I would recommend simple breath observation, followed by gradually lengthening the exhale, not the inhale. Try this for 2-5 minutes three times each day. 

Here is a very basic breath awareness exercise:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-SFdhVwrVA 

The following  is a simple, short and effective yoga routine: working with breathing to lessen agitation.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hzROgGzAsOI

Here is another one.

Easy and fun "yoga" to help jumpy kids calm down a little. No poses required, just grab your earlobes and squat up and down.

https://www.wikihow.life/Do-Superbrain-Yoga

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAn3yf_ZNE4&t=14s 

Here is a rhythmic drumming track to promote a calmer mind/body state. Put it on in the background.

https://www.stronginstitute.com/calm-for-anxiety/?mc_cid=a487ba4d4e&mc_eid=59d8e0f050 

Could be a good time to explore Tai Chi.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oCnCSOWgIUU 

Kelly McGonigal's short take on dealing with uncertainty and that which is beyond our control. Dr. McGonigal is a researcher, clinician and yoga professional; she's really smart and very engaging. She is well known in the current trauma field, for good reason.  I've also included a great guided meditation on body awareness and practicing mindfulness.

https://www.nicabm.com/3-step-approach-for-managing-uncertainty/ 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OHqUWmrF2vY 

Joan Borysenko PhD is a cell biologist and psychologist, and an expert on the relationship between stress and health. Here, she talks about  stress and the immune system. She emphasizes good nutrition, especially lots of fruit and vegetables during this hyper stressful time. 

https://www.joanborysenko.com/2020/03/taking-the-fear-out-of-coronavirus/?mc_cid=d096e2b514&mc_eid=2fd525d71a#video 

Tapping

I don't spend too much time on the technique of  EFT, also knows as "tapping", but it can be effective. This technique is based upon the stimulation of meridian points used in acupuncture to relieve the intensity of anxiety symptoms. It's a basic "mind/body" technique in that it attends to acceptance  of upsetting thoughts in mind; and de-activation of associated distress in the body. It looks funny, but it can be really helpful.

"What is EFT Tapping?"

https://www.healthline.com/health/eft-tapping 

The Tapping Solution is operated by a brother/sister team who seem quite nice; they have a website, a FB and and an app with lots of free routines.  

Introduction to "Tapping Points":

https://www.thetappingsolution.com/2020tws/how-to-tap.php 

Using tapping to breathe and open lungs:

https://www.thetappingsolution.com/blog/opening-up-the-breath-and-healing-the-lungs-tap-along/ 

Virtual 12 step meetings

https://us04web.zoom.us/j/948573540?status=success 

https://www.facebook.com/events/2757472541009231/?event_time_id=2757472554342563 

Inspiring Stuff

How to not lose your mind in a pandemic.

Every home-schooling mothers' heroine. The best! a must-watch, a true public service. I'm running with this lead...

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/mar/20/coronavirus-impossible-mother-tirade-remote-schooling

A family re-interprets Les Miserables for 2020. Wow, all I can say.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/video/2020/mar/31/kent-family-coronavirus-lockdown-adaptation-les-miserables-song-goes-viral-video?CMP=share_btn_link

Thwarted marathoner runs marathon on his balcony:
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/marathon-balcony-coronavirus_n_5e7355b6c5b6eab77942df5f?ncid=newsltushpmgnews

Very funny and interesting take on humans, plagues and mass panic!

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/mar/13/plague-coronavirus-british-panic-buying 

This has nothing to do with Coronavirus except that it's just amazing and is making me hopeful about the future of the human race. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TY-H2aUtrKI&app=desktop

Finally ...You Have 5 Minutes, Don't You?

Coping with the What If's

https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=22&v=sC5mp3AbCt8&feature=emb_title 

5 minute tapping exercise to relieve anxiety.

https://www.thetappingsolution.com/blog/releasing-anxiety/ 

This is a great short meditation I found years ago on YouTube. No frills "be here now."  Listen with a housemate. Comes with Scottish brogue.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Gj6qJGb3pE